"For you
know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting, and urging you
to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory."
1Thessalonians 2:11-12
This
past Sunday at my church a young teenager placed his ultimate trust in Christ
and got baptized. I worked with him last summer during vacation Bible school where
he had stood out as a leader and I had enjoyed watching his interactions with
the preschoolers. I spotted both of his parents eagerly taking videos as right
before our eyes a miracle took place. My vision blurred from tears as my heart
filled with emotions. My thoughts turned to my two girls and what a special day
it will be when they accept Jesus as Lord of their lives.
It
occurred to me that this one life changing moment is really an accumulation of
small moments throughout a person's life pointing the way to Christ. Small
moments but thoughtful moments nonetheless. As a mom it is so easy for me to
miss my focus on what really matters in the life of my children in favor of
their more immediate needs. I spend time researching the best sippy cups that
won't leak and hunt down the shoes that my toddler will actually keep on her
feet. I look into the best (and don't forget the cutest!) labels for their belongings. I find myself
researching solutions on how to keep everyone out from under my feet while I'm
cooking, and I spend time reading different books on discipline strategies
trying to find the most effective one for my little ones.
I
put such thought into these things that I know I sometimes neglect the one
thing that I must be most diligent about and that is making sure my girls know
who Jesus is and that their mommy loves him with all her heart so that one day
they will choose to do the same. It would be nice to have a checklist of sorts
telling us moms what we need to do to make this happen. Matters of the heart
aren't so easy though. There is no perfect time to pray nor perfect prayer.
There is no perfect children's Bible nor perfect spiritual activity.
Recently,
during my personal Bible study time I ran across 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12 and felt
like God was handing me my spiritual mission statement for mothering my
children. It was even broken down into three easy to remember parts: encourage,
comfort, and urge. I did some digging into the dictionary and came up with a
more complete picture of what these words mean for me as a mom. I am to
encourage my children much like a teacher or a coach does by inspiring them and
helping them in their relationship with God. I am to comfort them by strengthening them
with a sense of trust and expectancy in their Savior. Finally, I am to urge my children to live a
life worthy of God which will hasten them to action, the ultimate of which is
making the decision to live for Christ.
This
time of the year it is especially easy to get caught up in all of the holiday
festivities like Elf on a Shelf (yes, I
finally broke down!) and forget that we should be celebrating a Who (Jesus) and
not a what (the holiday event of Christmas). Hopefully, if we maintain our focus on our mommy
mission statement of encouraging, comforting, and urging, we can navigate our
children through the holidays knowing that we didn't obstruct their view of
Jesus. May God use this holiday season of small moments to one day accumulate
into the ultimate in life changing moments for our children.